So how was your day Capt?
Well over the last few days I have been giving the old Internet Dating ‘Wheel of Fortune’ a spin.
It all started off ok, I had a lovely bunch just down the road from my house. It was another of my ‘wheel of fortune’ dates, where the intrepid Capt. Spins the wheel and sees what the dating gods have offered up for him. This time it was Miss S, who was a lovely and interesting lady, a truly dedicated person who apparently works tirelessly for charity, was very funny and entertaining, and has a pussy cat just like I do.
We shared brunch and chatted and all was going great, until, and there is always an ‘until’, the subject of my recently cultivated beard came up. You see, none of my photos on the dating site have me wearing a beard. Apparently according to Miss S, beards are a bit old hat, don’t you think they make you look old, I’d be worried about that if I was you…
I was starting to feel just a tad offended at this point, as I am desperately trying to achieve my ultimate beard look, and here are a few of my role models, what do you think?
George, Pierce and Daniel, what hunks… And with a beard I look so much like them!
Anyway, beards make you look manlier… And I’m not taking it off just because some stupid date thinks I should… Na Na De Na Na…
So, once I had settled down from the beard discussion, we moved onto children. Now I have three of my own, who incidentally don’t live with me, but who I do visit every school holidays for at least a week at a time. I love kids, especially my kids…
Well Miss S also has kids and first off she told me about her two foster children, but that was ok as they are all grown up and moved out of home. But I got the sense that I hadn’t reach the end of this story, so after a bit of probing she then told me about her 5 other children… At this point I started to do my accounting thing, ‘Say what, you have 7 children?’… And I broke out into a cold sweat…
And I started having flashbacks of Steve Martin movies…
Cheaper by the dozen…
But I am being a little unfair, Miss S was a lovely lady and I walked away from our late brunch feeling like I’d like to have another session to see where things could go. Once again, it’s nice to go out with someone without any pressure, well apart from a few subtle beard removal hints…
So will you roll the dice with Miss S again? Yep probably, she was fun…
Next I visited my mates Mark and Heather, it’s always great to catch up with old friends and we had a coffee and they checked out my new car… We had coffee at a quaint little coffee shop, the type that is full of semi-antique furniture and the walls are covered in local painters semi-satisfactory efforts, and everthing including the furniture has a price tag on it.
This is the sort of ‘quaint’ I mean
That being said the company was great (my friends) and the coffee and the brownies weren’t too bad either.
I left the coffee shop and bid my friends a fond goodbye, promised not to leave it so long next time, and wandered to my car with a nice feeling and relaxed, all ready for my second date for the day…
What’s this Capt? 2 dates in the one day?
Yep, I’m building up to a movie script idea that I’ve been toying with, “3 dates and a funeral” or maybe considering how my recent dating history has been going, maybe “3 dating disasters and my own funeral”.
Miss K was a very interesting lady, as was the venue chosen by her. Normally I meet ladies at restaurants, coffee shops, bars, that sort of thing, well Miss K wanted to meet up in the main bar at the local Ex-Serviceman’s Club. It’s the kind of place that old pensioners and war veterans meet up at to talk about old times, maybe watch the football, and get drunk.
Yes, for everyone outside of Australia, there really is a Rooty Hill RSL club… And by the way the club I went to was not nearly as nice as this one…
So what was Miss K like Capt?
A picture tells a thousand words, so they say, and Miss K was worthy of probably more than that. I couldn’t find a suitable picture in my trolling of Google pics, but I suppose this was as close as I came to it.
She was perhaps this scary…
So why did you hang around?
Mainly because I just couldn’t work out what she was on about, or perhaps what she was on. She had everything going for her. I hadn’t picked up from her dating site profile that she smoked like a chimney, drank like a fish, she drank 3 schooners (375 ml) of beer while I was talking to her. She swore like a trooper and in the middle of the conversation, which was pretty one-sided (mostly her side), she told me she frequented chat rooms with men (the internet ones) and often stayed up doing this until 4-5 in the morning. All this while drinking beers and chain-smoking.
The ashtray was getting pretty full while we ‘chatted’
I thought that we had reached the bottom of her particular barrel when she told me that her husband had walked out on her with the kids because he couldn’t take her anymore. Apparently she had been sleeping around ‘a bit’.
By this time I had reached the end of my tolerance, and said that I had better get going, and felt like saying thanks for the free cigarettes (gained from all the smoke blown in my direction). But that’s when she suggested that maybe I would like to come home with her and, well do I really have to spell out the rest… This is when I nearly fell off my bar stool…
I wish I could have seen my own face…
After I picked my jaw off the floor, I said politely, no thanks… and I walked the lovely Miss K to my car and drove her home.
Will you be seeing Miss K again?
You know, I am being a bit unfair… Miss K is one troubled lady. She is obviously an alcoholic; she looked like hell, which is not the way to make an impression when you meet a guy. When I rang her as I was leaving my friend’s place to meet up with her, she was still in bed, apparently sleeping off the previous nights all night internet chat room session.
I feel sorry for Miss K, but I won’t be seeing her again. But it made me realise how fortunate I am not to be in that sort of situation.
You see Miss K lives alone in a single room bed sit. She apparently has few (if any) friends, and sees very little of her children (apparently at their request). And its apparent to me that what I view as normality or perhaps sanity is not always what is reality, you see Miss K really thinks she is doing ok, at least that’s what she tried to convince me.
Where to next Capt?
So I think I will give the dating wheel of fortune a miss for a few weeks… Today wasn’t the best of days, at least as far as dating went.
Although Miss S was a heap of laughs… And maybe I get Karma points for bringing some happiness to some lonely women, although I don’t think Miss S is that lonely and Miss K, well…
Capt. Savage
(Intending to remain hairy and bearded, regardless of his growing and uncanny resemblance to Father Christmas)